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Monday, June 4, 2012

MOONLIGHT AND GREEN-WOOD

An almost completely full-moon cast its soft glow over the grassy hills and meandering paths of Green-Wood Cemetery Saturday night as a large group of about 250 eager individuals walked silently through the grounds. Accompanied by the sounds of an accordion playing music from years gone by, Green-wood hosted its Moonlight Tour. Artie and I were among the participants.

Green-Wood historian Jeff Richman led us on an amazing trek through the moonlit necropolis, giving a wonderful running commentary about Green-wood's permanent residents.

One of our early stops was the monument to William Holbrook Beard. A famous American artist, known for his Bulls and Bears on Wall Street and The Bear Dance oil paintings, Beard died in 1900 and was buried in an unmarked grave. A headstone topped by a bronze bear statue sculpted by Dan Ostermiller was placed on the grave 102 years after the artist's death.

Three stops in particular were especially poignant.  The first was the monument to Jane Griffith. A housewife during the mid-1800s, the monument shows her standing on the stairs of her family  home, seeing her husband off to work. Her husband returned home that evening to find his wife had died from a heart attack. And carved on the monument at the top of the stairs near the mistress of the house is the image of the family dog.

The second poignant stop was a field set aside by Green-wood Cemetery for Civil War burials. Those who died in battle or from disease are interred there along with Veterans who passed in the 20 or so years after the end of the War Between The States. Prominent in this field is the monument to the Little Drummer Boy. Clarence McKenzie was 11 years old when he became a drummer boy for the 13th NYS Militia. Sometime after Clarence turned 12, his regiment was called up. He begged his mother to allow him to accompany them into battle. After refusing to allow him to go, she relented against his argument: Who would shoot a 12 year old drummer boy? At Annapolis, a private borrowed a musket from the acting cook. While the private practiced for battle, Clarence was accidently shot when the gun, which was thought to be unloaded, discharged. He died from his wounds becoming the first Brooklyn resident Civil War casualty. After Clarence was buried, his pet dog Jack refused to leave his grave for quite a few days after the interment.

The next stop was the Howe family plot. Elias was a man of poor means who invented the sewing machine. His invention made him a millionaire. The plot is impressive and its most touching feature is at the back. There is a small headstone dedicated to Fannie who died December 10, 1881. There is a beautiful verse carved into the stone to commemorate the Howe family dog. We all know 'people' cemeteries do not allow pet interments. Is Fannie buried with her family? I like to think she is.

We ended our moonlight tour at Battle Hill - the highest point in Brooklyn with a spectacular view of New York Harbor and the Statue of Liberty.  Are there more animal stories connected to Green-Wood, you bet there are and I will be posting about the Green-Wood/animal connection again sometime soon.

Green-Wood's Main Gate before sunset with the moon visible in the sky. (photo by Artie)

William Holbrook Beard:
http://www.wildlifeart.org/collection/artists/?artistid=300
http://www.green-wood.com/2011/april-birthdays/

Clarence McKenzie:
http://www.angelfire.com/ny4/thishallowedground/thelittledrummerboy.htm


Sunday, June 3, 2012

DOGTIPPER COLORING BOOK ARTICLE

While catching up on my reading, I came across an article in DogTipper about National Dog Bite Prevention Week which was last week and a link to a free coloring book download.  The coloring book focuses on teaching kids how to interact with dogs and is offered by the American Veterinary Medical Association.

Good to have if you have children or if you are a pet parent.  It's a quick read - easy lessons for the kids and a mini-refresher for you:

http://www.dogtipper.com/coupons/2012/05/free-download-dog-safety-coloring-book.html?utm_source=feedburner&utm_medium=email&utm_campaign=Feed%3A+Dogtipper+%28DogTipper.com%29

Saturday, June 2, 2012

BACK TO BUDDY TWO MONTHS LATER

Today is the two-month anniversary of Buddy's passing and I wanted to reflect back on his diagnosis and illness.

The initial diagnosis was shocking, one we never expected and it sent us into panic mode. I was terrified - how was I going to handle chronic renal failure in a cat?  What if Buddy wouldn't cooperate with his treatment? What if Buddy didn't respond to treatment? We were very lucky on both counts.  Not only did Buddy respond to treatment but his incredible character continued to shine through all the life changes he had to endure.  He protested very little and suffered through everything we did to him and for him. Amazing when you think about it.  The most resistance he exhibited was trying to push my hand away when he had to take his appetite pill.  He never once hissed, scratched, spit, bit or fought us, putting up a perfunctory resistance instead, an almost because-I-have-to-resist-in-some-way type of protest.

If you have a cat that fights you tooth and nail, wrap him in a towel, wear long sleeves, do what you can to get a routine going and medicines administered.  Above all, realize you might not be able to handle your cat or administer what is needed. If you exhaust all efforts and still cannot get your cat into a routine, don't blame yourself, accept the situation and know you did what you could.

Once we settled into a routine, there was a tendency to forget Buddy was sick. Another pitfall of dealing with chronic renal failure. Play with your pet, enjoy him (or her) and love him but keep reminding yourself there is limited time left and you need to be prepared for the inevitable. There was a long stretch of time where we couldn't believe Buddy was sick and thankfully he didn't die suddenly.  If that had happened it would have been impossible for us to cope.

With renal failure, the pet parent must be prepared for a sudden turn for the worst or an unexpected rapid decline. Cats are very good at hiding illness so the pet parent must understand that the diagnosis most likely is not at the beginning of the illness but after the disease has progressed.  You must be prepared for your best efforts to yield either a long time of quality life, a short time of quality life or no positive results at all. Each cat is different and the results will be different as well. Don't blame yourself if your best efforts do not produce the  expected results.

Finally, once your beloved companion is gone, allow yourself to grieve, give yourself time to heal, be kind to yourself. If you need to, spend time alone. If being with friends helps then make the effort to connect with others and if you need to, seek counseling to help you get through the rough times.

I'm sorry Buddy had to go through what he did and I miss him terribly but I would not change one second of the journey. We gave him the best life possible and he gave us so much more - his love and companionship.

If your cat has been diagnosed with renal failure, the information in the following links will prove invaluable:


  

Friday, June 1, 2012

ODD MOMENTS AND MAURICE SENDAK

At Odd moments my thoughts go back to Maurice Sendak, his career in children's literature and as an artist. In his work as a children's author/illustrator, he drew heavily on his life experiences and the result was a wonderful use of animals in his stories especially a number of his canine companions.

My friend and blogging buddy, Margaret, came across the following bit of information about an upcoming exhibit of his work which I'm happy to share with everyone. The Rosenbach Museum and Library, housed in a Civil War era townhouse located in Philadelphia PA is honoring their long relationship with Maurice Sendak with a yearlong exhibit of his work. The exhibit opens June 10th, marking what would have been Mr. Sendak's 84th birthday, closing May 26, 2013.

So, visit the Wild Things and Max who was named for one of Mr. Sendak's German Shepherds or Jennie another canine companion immortalized in Higglety Pigglety Pop! or just to reconnect with Mr. Sendak's art and talent.

To learn more about the exhibit follow this link:
http://www.rosenbach.org/learn/exhibitions/maurice-sendak-legacy 

To read about the Rosenbach Museum and Library the mission and history link is a good place to start:
http://www.rosenbach.org/mission-history